You know, in an ideal world, family is who you trust beyond all else. You have their back and they have yours. If you have a family like this, count your blessings. However, that is not me. If my family members were completely honest, they would admit that we don't belong together. We each have our immediate family that we stick to, but outside of the house or when you put us in large groups, we become this mess of people who smile and compliment while secretly wondering who is the winner of life. Maybe my luck will change and I will marry into an awesome family. But I kind of doubt it. So the way I see it, I will choose who is my family. I will pick the people who I trust to have my back and be there when I need support. My family (chosen, not biological) always have a good time when together, and we are willing to go to jail if someone dare mess with one of us. Ok that is my rant of the day. On the other hand, I had a blast today with my sister and John. Lots of laughter. that is all for now. Maybe tomorrow I will be in better mood. Ciao!
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Saturday, June 16, 2012
Life is Crazy....and then you die
OK, so its official that I am a horrible blogger. If you think the amount of blogs i publish is bad you should see my diary. My future kids (if I ever reproduce) are not going to understand how my entries go from I'm 19 and have a crush on some English major to I'm 21 and getting ready for college.
Anyways, life is moving on blah blah blah. The whole reason I actually got around to blogging is because this girl I work with, Sophie, who I absolutely adore, blogs and it made me feel guilty lol. Ok, latest life situation that you will find humorous is my current date life.... or lack thereof. Don't get me wrong. I have been asked out. The total now is 3 guys. Which is impressive, knowing my looks and personality. All three of them don't meet my standards. Too young, too creepy, too obsessed with himself and so on and so forth. I have had a few people tell me I am too picky. They have said, and I am pretty much quoting here " You will never find love if you don't lower your standards". I would apologize but that would be a big fat lie. So far I have met a total of one guy who met my standards and I was super close to moving to be close to him. Lets just say that he didn't feel the same. But that is life. Why is that everyone is ok with settling for less than they deserve? It has never made sense to me.
If there is any lesson to be learned from my latest rant is this, make a list, think about it for awhile, really really think. And write down everything, EVERYTHING that you MUST have in your future mate. You also include things you would prefer, but don't need, like he should wear boxers, or can't like seafood. And then comes the hard part. STICK to it! If the person doesn't meet the important standards, then don't even go there. It is hard, I will give you that, I have been tempted. But think of it, You are wasting your time and his/hers. Also, I don't care what they say, pity dating or going out with someone for the heck or it/ free dinner, is cruel and wrong. Is there anything else I need to write/rant about? No I think I am good. I will do my best to blog tomorrow, but i make no promises lol
CIAO!
Anyways, life is moving on blah blah blah. The whole reason I actually got around to blogging is because this girl I work with, Sophie, who I absolutely adore, blogs and it made me feel guilty lol. Ok, latest life situation that you will find humorous is my current date life.... or lack thereof. Don't get me wrong. I have been asked out. The total now is 3 guys. Which is impressive, knowing my looks and personality. All three of them don't meet my standards. Too young, too creepy, too obsessed with himself and so on and so forth. I have had a few people tell me I am too picky. They have said, and I am pretty much quoting here " You will never find love if you don't lower your standards". I would apologize but that would be a big fat lie. So far I have met a total of one guy who met my standards and I was super close to moving to be close to him. Lets just say that he didn't feel the same. But that is life. Why is that everyone is ok with settling for less than they deserve? It has never made sense to me.
If there is any lesson to be learned from my latest rant is this, make a list, think about it for awhile, really really think. And write down everything, EVERYTHING that you MUST have in your future mate. You also include things you would prefer, but don't need, like he should wear boxers, or can't like seafood. And then comes the hard part. STICK to it! If the person doesn't meet the important standards, then don't even go there. It is hard, I will give you that, I have been tempted. But think of it, You are wasting your time and his/hers. Also, I don't care what they say, pity dating or going out with someone for the heck or it/ free dinner, is cruel and wrong. Is there anything else I need to write/rant about? No I think I am good. I will do my best to blog tomorrow, but i make no promises lol
CIAO!
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